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from savage love:
For the past three years I have been in a stable relationship with a great guy. He is always there for me; he has never cheated on me. It is the kind of relationship that some girls dream of. The sex is okay.
But I’m only 24 and I’m feeling suffocated. A co-worker and I recently started to do things socially. We have a great time together. This past weekend, we admitted that we were attracted to each other. We ended up kissing. He is in a relationship and isn’t thinking about leaving. So it would work out perfectly; we could be like fuck buddies.
I am feeling conflicted. If it goes further with my co-worker, I don’t think I would tell my boyfriend because I don’t want to hurt him. But I wanted to get your feelings on getting some on the side. What are the pros and cons of cheating?
Some On The Side
The pros? Sex, excitement, variety. The cons? Discovery, breakup, hellfire. Every idiot knows those pros and cons, SOTS, including you.
But here’s a pro that’s rarely acknowledged: Sometimes cheating can save a long-term relationship. Sometimes only cheating makes it possible for a sexually rejected partner to stay in a relationship that’s worth preserving for other good, valid reasons—like kids, for instance. And sometimes only cheating makes it possible for a person whose partner has a chronic, debilitating illness to stay put and stay sane. In these cases, cheating isn’t just the right thing to do; it’s the only decent and honorable thing to do.
Some fuckwits, of course, piously insist that Cheating Is Always Wrong. To the CIAW crowd, I say this: Fuck you, you self-righteous Pollyanna fucktards. I’m sick of CIAW types insisting with one breath that sex and sexual exclusivity are hugely important. Even the contemplation of an affair, to say nothing of its consummation, represents an unforgivable betrayal. And then in the very next breath, CIAWers insist that sex is so unimportant, so colossally trivial, that a person should be able to go without—forever!—if their mate is unwilling or incapable.
You can’t have it both ways, CIAWers. If sex is hugely important then people can’t be faulted for wanting some; if it’s unimportant then it shouldn’t be seen as a huge betrayal when some poor fuckers, under duress, get their needs met elsewhere.
That said, SOTS, I’m not gonna give you a pass. You’re not done with sex, he’s not dying, you don’t have kids—cheating under your particular circumstances can’t be justified. Regardless of what happens with your co-worker, you need to end this relationship. You’re not attracted to your boyfriend emotionally or physically, and you don’t have the kind of entanglements—biological or durational—to rationalize a fuck buddy. Do the right thing, SOTS, and break up with this guy.
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Thursday, March 8th, 2007from savage love: For the past three years I have been in a stable relationship with a great guy. He is always there for me; he has never cheated on me. It is the kind of relationship that some girls dream of. The sex is okay. But I’m only 24 and I’m feeling suffocated. A […]
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