it is shit like this, shit of this very ilk — on tv, in the movies, on the radio, in print — that makes me murderously infuriated with all of womankind. there is a very good reason why i don’t like bitches, and this just contributes to it. shit likes this makes all of us look bad. seriously.fucking.bad.
i don’t know if it’s puritanical-ism (is that a word?), or embarrassment, or taboo, or whatthefuckever, but why is it that women are always supposed to feel/or presented as feeling that sex is such a fucking chore, like it’s a job or duty or something you just lie back grit your teeth and put up with? where in the bloody fuck did that notion come from?
and this, this is but one of thousands of examples…the man wants sex so you sigh, shrug and hope it’s over with quickly. or the man wants sex so you try to come up with other things to distract him so you don’t have to. and so on, and so on, and so on. i can think of numerous movies (that i don’t like) and television shows/tv characters and books and magazine articles and websites that present the same bullshit.
sex is a job, sex is a chore, sex is something women don’t like, sex is something you do to keep a man/keep a man happy/get a man to do things for you/trick a man into [fill in the blank]/etc.
mind you, i’m browsing through teh innernets to avoid ickiness at work and because i’m fuckin’ bored AND sleepy, but occasionally i come across something just so retarded that i can’t deal with it.
madonna/whore complex at it’s finest, i think. and so disgusting that it’s permeated nearly all facets of society. how are you supposed to be in touch with your sexuality when at every fucking turn you’re told that it’s wrong, that it’s dirty, that it’s something you’re not supposed to like that much anyway?! it doesn’t fucking make sense.
and if you do manage to transcend and realize: oh my god, fucking…is FUCKING AMAZING!! then you’ve just screwed yourself (literally and figuratively). the world doesn’t quite know how to handle a woman who knows what she wants, sexually speaking. the easiest way to manage is deem said woman a slutwhoreskank and pretend nothing ever happened. or, even worse, with the aforementioned complex men (and the greater populace as a whole) want their womenfolk to be pretty, prim, proper and pure in the public eye and about 17 different kinds of freak nasty once you’re behind closed doors.
which, must be a hard thing to accomplish when so many women think sex is just icky. it must be true if it’s on [insert media influence here].
even if it doesn’t affect your personal life, it’s maddening to see things like this every where you look. oh lord, and don’t even get me started on feminism. women want to be recognized for being strong, independent, capable females. so few either stop short of recognition on a human scale, and so many flip it around and turn it into a man-bashing stance.
human rights, that should be the main point. man, woman, gay, straight, single, married, religious, athiest…human.fucking.rights. the same goes for sexuality. if we’re going to focus on strictly heterosexual relationships, there is no benefit whatsoever to men liking sex so much more than women that women straight up abhor it — none whatsoever. hell, the only thing that leads to is an orgy of all the men in the world trying to prevent poor people from the future coming back to ruin the present because DEY TUK OUR JRBS!!! and nobody, wants that. of course, women hating sex is all fine and well and good for gay men, no problem there. but if it were really true, how does one explain lesbians? surely lesbianism isn’t based on scintillating company alone…surely not.
i think i’m getting too sidetracked at the moment, actually…
the point is: i like sex, you should too.
be you man or woman. really, it’s a good thing.
(and once a week is never enough! stupid innernets!)
